In every relationship, there will always be problems. Problems are the main cause, why relationship ends. Though these problems may be a disadvantage, but it also has its advantage since this can also help make a relationship much stronger. There are a lot of issues that cause relationship problems.
Below are the cause of problems in a relationship:
A. The lack of Understanding
The lack of understanding is one of the reasons why couples have problems. If you are going to work with someone or be in a relationship with someone you need to have understanding. If you do not understand your parents, your partner, friends, siblings, children and workmate then you will have issues. When you do not have understanding then you are both seeing things in different perspectives. This just means that you both do not have an agreement. There are times when you do not see your own mistakes that is why you find it difficult to understand your partner. You are only looking at the faults of your partner.
B. Lack of tolerance
Due to the lack of tolerance a lot of relationships were destroyed. Tolerance means that you have the patience to understand your partner.
C. Being with evil company
This cause is quite relevant to the saying, “show me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are.” There are many of relationships that go down the drain because they seek advice from evil friends. It is very important that you check the people who are very close to you. People who are just a bad influence in your life, then you should just cut them out. If you are reading the bible then you need to check 1 Corinthians 15:33. It is stated in the verse that evil company corrupts good company.
D. The lack of money
According to some people money is the root of all evil. Those people that think money is the answer for everything are those that do not have good realtionships.
Tips in handling relationship problems:
It is important that you have understanding if you want to have a healthy relationship. Remember no one is perfect and you must also listen to the opinion of your partner. You need to understand your partner. Since this can really affect and cause problems in your relationship. Evaluate yourself, you also need to check and accept your flaws. Then try to change. Listen in order for you to have better understanding. Patience is also important.